June 3, 2005

Blessings one and all…

Here we find a topic of interest to many.

How do you define romantic relationships within the context of spirituality?

Many will raise their hands and shout “I know, I know …it’s all about unconditional love!”

That would be a wonderful thing, now wouldn’t it?

We tell you that true unconditional love is not possible while you are in those 3D body suites of yours.

Many strive for this condition of “unconditional love” and we tell you many come as close as you can get in your world of duality.

It is simply not possible to achieve unconditional love in the dualistic energies of the Earth plane. If it were, you would not be able to facilitate your lesson plans under such a conditions.

Even after you move to the next phase of your evolution, unconditional love will still not be possible as experienced on our side of the veil.

You will experience a much closer form of love than you do now.

So it may appear that you have reached that “pinnacle” and you may think you are in fact experiencing “unconditional love” because it will seem so far beyond what you have been able to experience up to that point.

This is a wonderful thing and we don’t want to “make light of it”, as you would say. Our desire is to make you clearly aware and empowered by the truth of what you are experiencing.

You have been given many guide lines by the duality of the Earth plane and some by the particular cultures to which you have been exposed.

Have you not noticed that even within individual cultures these guidelines or parameters are now drastically changing?

What would have been considered almost intolerable 10 or 15 years ago are now becoming largely accepted as valid relationships.

The acceptance of same sex, interracial, interdenominational, age gap relationships is spreading through many countries and cultures.

The recognition that love is love regardless of the composition of the couple is being widely embraced even if it does not seem like it at times.

Look back only a decade or two and see how different the tolerance levels are today.

This is a wonderful thing that many are realising that love between two people does not depend on all the external things, rather the heart and soul connection between two individuals.

We are not here to tell you what is “right or wrong”, as you say in this area of relationships. We wish you only to look at the “heart” of the matter.

What is really important is the heart and soul connection between the two and the way they respect each other.

This is a challenge for many at this time as there is much shifting going on in this area of romantic relationships.

Many are finding old relationships no longer serve them and many are finding real relationships for the first time in their lives.

The restrictions that governments, churches, cultures, and social mores of your planet have put on such relationships no longer apply; in fact they never really did except you choose to be controlled by them in varying degrees.

If you look at it from the perspective of universal law and unconditional love there is only one choice.

Truth!

In all relationships the guiding principle is “truth”.

Your only responsibility to the other is to be in absolute truth at all times.

What does this really mean you ask?

It means that you must be totally truthful, regardless of consequences, with the other person in order to empower them to make their own choices regarding the relationship.

If you have come to the conclusion that your current relationship no longer serves your highest good and you wish to conclude the relationship, you have the responsibility to let your partner know in absolute truth and love that this is your choice.

Making excuses and hiding the truth from your partner is unacceptable and will not be supported by the new energies.

If you think you can continue to tell half truths, white lies and flat out false hoods in the new energies, dear ones, you are mistaken.

You have been told by Spirit many times that there will be no more “secrets”.

There are a lot still trying to live there lives with secrets from others.

They are fooling themselves.

Just because others are sometimes choosing denial or self deception over truth does not mean they are not aware.

Sooner or later the person will no longer be able to deny the truth and will confront the other.

Why would you choose to let these situations develop when it would be in the highest good of both parties simply to speak the truth and have a parting based in truth and love rather than deceit and anger.

Feel the unconditional love we hold for you, dear ones, many will be facing these situations in the near future and many are already in these energies.

Blessing all…

We hold you gently in our arms and ask you to hold each other in your heart of hearts.

The Guardians

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